Happy day to you all! I am pleased to share with you my much belated review of
How To Be God’s Little Princess, by Sheila Walsh!
The “God’s Little Princess” collection has not come by me unnoticed; I have simply tried to avoid it :) It’s not that I don’t like princesses, or the “God’s Little Princess” collection, in particular. It’s that I have an issue with how much we (read: our children) are the targets of aggressive marketing, Christian or otherwise. As soon as I find out there's all this Stuff associated with a title, I tend to just turn my back on it all together.
But…when I popped over to
BookSneeze to select a book to review, this one grabbed me. You must know that I do, in fact, have a God’s Little Princess-in-Residence. Yes, EK loves the idea of princesses.
The dresses.
The parties.
The planning of said parties.
The jewelry.
The food.
The talking.
And, well…if I have a Visiting Princess from the King in my care, I need the guidebook for manners, etiquette and above all – True Beauty. :)
When you do things, do not let selfishness or
pride be your guide. Be humble and give more
honor to others than to yourselves.
Phillippians 2:3
Now, I have to be honest. If you caught my tone at the beginning of my post, then you would not be surprised that I hesitated to select this book to review. I really thought that it would be, as Charlotte Mason would put it, twaddle. I decided to try it, however, because (1) it is free, so I’m not losing anything (2) I haven’t actually LOOKED at any of the God’s Little Princess things, so I need to give it a fair shake, and (3) at least it isn’t Disney. (because if you know me, you know how I feel about that, don’t you?)
So I requested it. And low, and behold – it’s not so bad!
As a matter of fact, it’s a fairly nifty book! How to Be… is a hardback book, and the lettering is in silver foil. To a Princess-In-Residence (PIR), that is important. It’s pink, of course, which is another plus for the PIR, as well as the sweet illustrations sprinkled throughout the book.
But let’s talk content, shall we?
How To Be... is not your standard book of etiquette. Like I said, I really expected a bunch of fluff out of this book, but I was pleasantly surprised by how author Sheila Walsh moves from matters of royalty, to matters of personal hygiene and self-care, time management and developing a good attitude. There are 12 sections, from how to dress appropriately (and thank goodness for illustrations that are modest, but not babyish or frumpy!) to manners in different situations to how to be a friend to media wisdom and etiquette. This book is really quite full of information that doesn’t gloss over things in one blanket statement, but doesn’t get heavy at all.
Believe in the value of wisdom, and it will make
you great. Use it, and it will bring honor to you.
Like flowers in your hair, it will beautify your life.
Like a crown, it will make you look beautiful.
Proverbs :8-9
This book is definitely geared towards the more girly of girls. While my oldest daughter would (and probably did) roll her eyes at how to wear a tiara or how to properly paint her nails, she would (and probably did) like doing the various puzzles, quizzes, reading the snippets of facts and verses included, and other activities that make up a fair chunk of the book. The examples and scenarios given include girls who like to climb trees,
don't like to wear dresses, and prefer function over fashion.
There are couple items in the book that I didn’t think my girls were ready to work with, such as how to be Internet-safe. Our girls have very limited access to the Internet, and zero access to social networking sites such as Facebook, so the Internet section is not applicable at this time. Still, I think it does a good job of presenting the girls with the do's and don't of using the Internet. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this, for future reference!
I am really glad I have this book a try. Walsh does a good job of hitting the outside beauty notes, while always and again returning to the Bible and biblical principles for WHY we should …
…care for our bodies
…offer forgiveness to friends and siblings who hurt us
…start to consider our gifts and how they can be used to bless others
…put others before ourselves
…think about how we write, text, and otherwise communicate with others
…not wear a ballroom gown to a school pizza party.
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